When the couple divorced, the largest competition for all children.

A colleague neighbor's daughter divorced, because her husband is engaged in real estate on the outside and engage in a long III. Primary Three when she was expecting a baby often called harassment, divorced when the child is not born. Now own a urine feces to pull the child for almost two weeks, and the man also happened several times during a dispute about child custody. Now her children, she also took into account their marriage. But many believe that the man had brought a boy, how much some of the burden later in life.

Also I heard last night was a female friend also divorced, because her husband is having an affair outside. When the divorce to the man with the child could have been, but for unknown reasons, the man with a period of time do not want to bring up. For the woman's mother and feelings had to take it, after all, their own flesh and blood thing. Now friends are considering custody turn. Now my friend returned home to find a job, wages are barely more than two thousand children to follow their own grandmother kindergarten in the country.

The two sides also previously heard grab the child to do after the divorce, things happen in our local kindergarten.

Despite truths, both husband and wife should calmly to consider the issue of raising a child in the end who is, first, to consider the child, the second is for their own consideration.

First you have to have the ability to raise a child, a boy raised now is not easy, especially in our rural people's view. One child culture through college after graduation but also to give him to buy a house to get married. Such a burden to a woman's ability to really not easy to achieve. Then the woman must want child support payments in place. We see a lot of news from child support from the woman, but the man never gave the results support payments, to the last bitter woman, but also bitter child.

The second is to take into account their own (my ideas would have been refuted, but I see a problem with understanding the point of view), under if they really can not afford to raise a child and the other circumstances permit, it is better to let children follow each other, In particular woman. In our local people's view, when you remarry with a boy, then someone else will more or less take into account the burden of living beyond. Remarriage others will want to have a child of their own, so that more children with the burden of the weight of two people will breathe.

After living the ideal life is not a person with children, but not me hate life, yesterday my friend said.

What is the ideal life after a divorce is you want? Or use rational point of view under real life?

For your practice, I understand and support. But also away worry you in real life!